Hello! I moved again. This time, unbelievably, back to New York City.
In the last four years I've moved twice. I've had the opportunity to get rid of things I don't need, meet new, wonderful people, reunite with friends and family on the West Coast, and take pictures in new spaces. Breathe new air. If you think taking vacations gives you new perspectives, try moving! Or, if you don't like the stress of it all, just go on vacation.
Where have you been, Elizabeth?
After many years of living in Northampton, MA, we moved to Los Angeles for two years. The remnants of those Covid lockdown days (now feeling like ancient history) were still lingering in Northampton, and we needed to breathe new air. So, we packed our bags, left the return date open, and called it an extended "working vacation." I worked, but it still felt like a vacation.
LA Years
It was lovely. Something was blossoming at all times. A purple tree, some gorgeous bush that looks like it should be at the bottom of the ocean, roses, a cool cactus, it was all over-the-top. Southern Cali, you sure are a great beauty and a show-off! What we see on the East Coast for a few weeks of the year, you display all year round. And not to mention the snow-capped mountains in winter, the rocky majestic coast, all of it. And miraculously, while we were there, there were no wildfires, no major earthquakes, and tons of rain.
We had a great time. We went to Joshua Tree twice, Venice Beach and Baldwin Hills Scenic Overlook at least twice a week, Huntington Library Gardens, pictured above after a glorious storm), San Francisco. twice, and clocked in essentially zero miles on our odometer due to the fact that we lived in Culver City, where everything was accessible by foot. We celebrated birthdays and holidays with family and friends. We even had a family trip to Montana's Glacier National Park.
My kid loved the basketball rec league at the local Y, and little league at Bill Botts Field, where he played atop a hill with an incredible view of the city and mountains. We took our little sports-lover to UCLA and Clippers basketball, USC football, and baseball games to watch the Angels (Thank you, Max!) and Dodgers (thank you, Rachel and Chad!), as well as minor league games in San Bernardino multiple times to watch our family friend pitch. On the professional front, the images I captured were next to none.
And I loved the drive (I can’t believe I’m saying that I loved a drive, but c’mon it was the Pacific Coast Highway.) to my favorite spot, Malibu Beaches where we always ended our beach day at Pita 'Bu.
Despite all of that, we left. And abruptly. And I’m not gonna lie; it ached a little bit.
Back in NYC
Why did we move back to the Upper East Side? It all started this past Mother's Day in LA. I was blasting Neil Diamond (as one does), when suddenly, my older son appeared at my doorstep from New York. No warning, no text—just there.
It did something to me, physically. (He apologized.) I realized how much I missed him, and how nice it was to see the two brothers together. Playing ping pong, joking around in the jacuzzi at night. Playing Geo-guesser. It means so much to me to see them together.
Then there was the FOMO. Watching my son carve out his adult life in NYC from afar was hard, I'll admit. New York has always been my true north, the backdrop of my parenting life, and my professional headquarters. I’ve lost count of the times I’ve flopped onto my bed and cried, New York is the only place I’m ever truly at home!
So here we are. Back in the chaos, back in the magic that is the greatest city on earth. Does my younger son miss LA? Yes, it was a vibe. It was sigma, bussin' and it had 'rizz. I feel incredibly grateful that we're even able to experience both cities. He's getting used to it though the public high school application process and his abysmal lottery number hasn’t helped.
Before we made the big move (by airplane with 9 suitcases) I had to be physically present to sign the lease, so I did a 24-hour round trip from LA to do so. It was so jarring, surreal. I didn't even feel like I remembered how to cross the street! Wait, people cross against the light? Which way are the cars going? Why are the streets so narrow? I arrived before the leasing office opened, and got a coffee at the old bodega. Walked to the old park along the East River. The trees were bigger, and there were more of them. Things were fancier, but the same. I was home.
The Future is Unwritten. Help Me Write It.
So now, it's time for me to rebuild my photo business here in NYC. Photography is still my strongest skill. Google removed my business page and I'm still trying to figure out how to fix that. Until then, I'm open for business. This is where you come in. Let your NYC friends or visiting friends know that I’m here for their events or photo sessions. And, if you’re ever “in the City” please give me a call! Because I’m not traveling anymore. : )
I wish you the happiest of holidays, and hope that you'll reach out and let me know how things are going. I shared my story of the past 3 years, and I really want to hear yours. x, ES